Home Worship Service December 6

Union Church
Biddeford Pool
…a place of peace and Presence by the sea
Union Church Home Service, December 6, 2020

Advent 2
“I Believe in Love: Daring Right Relationship”
December 6, 2020


Focus:  The season of Advent means there is something on the horizon the likes of which we have never seen before … What is possible is to not see it, to miss it, to turn just as it brushes past you. And you begin to grasp what it was you missed, like Moses in the cleft of the rock, watching God’s [back] fade in the distance. So stay. Sit. Linger. Tarry. Ponder. Wait. Behold. Wonder. There will be time enough for running. For rushing. For worrying. For pushing. For now, stay. Wait. Something is on the horizon.  —Jan L. Richardson


Lighting of the Advent Wreath:

Reader 1: We light the third candle of Advent.
How may God’s Love take shape in our world?
Reader 2: In dreams which move us to risk compassion;
In a vision of a community whole and peace-filled;
In hope which leads us to work for peace.
Reader 1:  So we light this candle of Love and pray:
Reader 2:  Come Lord Jesus!
Open our hearts to the Love which you embody;
Let that Love flow through us into your world!

Music:  I Believe –“In Love”  (by Mark A. Miller) -Michelle Currie

Call to Worship 

Leader:  We look for an extraordinary sign of hope for our world
but God’s sign is most ordinary of all: A young woman is with child.
All:  We look to power for strength in our world
but God points to the most vulnerable:  She gives birth.
Leader:  We look far and wide for a key to God’s mystery,
but God points us home:  She calls this child Immanuel: God-with-us!
All:  Let us rejoice, and worship our God
in our ordinary, vulnerable lives:  God-with-us!

Opening Hymn:  O Come, O Come Emmanuel (by Thomas Helmore)   —Michelle Currie

Opening Prayer:
Holy One, we thank you for the glimpses we catch
of your gift of daring love. Even in the midst of fear,
of challenge, of struggle–even when we cannot yet
see a better day when we will act like the human family
we are, ignite the flame of love within us, that we might
glow with its brilliance from the inside out.

Lord’s Prayer

Readings: Isaiah 7:13-14, Blessing the Way by Jan Richardson,

Matthew 1: 1-25 (selected passages)   —Cris Hudson

Anthem:  Love Has Broken Down the Walls (by Mark A. Miller)

Sermon: Signs of Love  —Rev. Paula Norbert

Music:  Instrumental Music of the Season (arr. Michelle Currie) —Michelle Currie

                        Celebration of the Lord’s Supper

             Words of Invitation        The Bread and The Cup

                           Prayer of Thanksgiving

Musical call to Prayer:  Prayers in the Stillness (by Mark A. Miller) —Michelle Currie

Prayers of the People:

Closing Music:    “It Came Upon the Midnight Clear” ( music: Richard Storrs Willis/text: Edmund Hamilton sears)  —Michelle Currie                           

We wait for justice
but we do not wait to work for change;
We wait for restored health
but we do not wait to work to heal;
We wait for wholeness
but we do not wait to work at binding brokenness;
We wait for peace
but we do not wait to work to eliminate hatred.
And so, my friends, like bells ringing out the news
that God is with us, Emmanuel.
May we continue to fill the world with messages of love. Go into your lives humming the tunes that keep that love alive in you and that spur you on in your work of justice and reconciliation.
Raise your voices and repeat after me…
“do not be afraid!”
“do not be afraid!” Amen!

Postlude:  Go In Peace

Worship Notes:  Worship series design © Worship Design Studio by Marcia McFee. Used, adapted, and live-streamed with permission. www.worshipdesignstudio.com.


Isaiah 7: 13-14
“Again the Lord spoke to Ahaz: “Ask a sign from the Lord your God. Make it as deep as the grave or as high as heaven.” But Ahaz said, “I won’t ask; I won’t test the Lord.” Then Isaiah said, “Listen, house of David! Isn’t it enough for you to be tiresome for people that you are also tiresome before my God? Therefore, the Lord will give you a sign. The young woman is pregnant and is about to give birth to a son, and she will name him Immanuel.”

Blessing the Way
With every step
you take,
this blessing rises up
to meet you.

It has been waiting
long ages for you.

Look close
and you can see
the layers of it,

how it has been fashioned
by those who walked
this road before you,

how it has been created
of nothing but
their determination
and their dreaming,

how it has taken
its form
from an ancient hope
that drew them forward
and made a way for them
when no way could be

Look closer
and you will see
this blessing
is not finished,

that you are part
of the path
it is preparing,

that you are how
this blessing means
to be a voice
within the wilderness

and a welcome
for the way.

—Jan Richardson, Circle of Grace, A Book of Blessings for the Seasons

Gospel Reading

Matthew 1: 1-25 (CEB) (selected passages)

A record of the ancestors of Jesus Christ, son of David, son of Abraham:

Abraham was the father of Isaac.

Isaac was the father of Jacob.

Jacob was the father of Judah and his brothers, and down through the many generations…

Jacob, son of Matthan, was the father of Joseph, the husband of Mary—of whom Jesus was born, who is called the Christ. So there were fourteen generations from Abraham to David, fourteen generations from David to the exile to Babylon, and fourteen generations from the exile to Babylon to the Christ.

This is how the birth of Jesus Christ took place. When Mary his mother was engaged to Joseph, before they were married, she became pregnant by the Holy Spirit. Joseph her husband was a righteous man. Because he didn’t want to humiliate her, he decided to call off their engagement quietly. As he was thinking about this, an angel from the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, don’t be afraid to take Mary as your wife, because the child she carries was conceived by the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you will call him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.” Now all of this took place so that what the Lord had spoken through the prophet would be fulfilled:

Look! A virgin will become pregnant and give birth to a son,

And they will call him, Emmanuel.  (Emmanuel means “God with us.”)

When Joseph woke up, he did just as an angel from God commanded and took Mary as his wife.  When she gave birth to a son, Joseph called him Jesus.

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Sermon – December 6, 2020

Advent 2
“I Believe in Love: Daring Right Relationship”

Rev. Paula Norbert


Synopsis (read at the beginning of worship): In both the Gospel of Matthew and Isaiah, a messenger appears as a sign from God, heralding a new era. In each passage, we hear the words “do not be afraid” … offering a clue that the messenger–whether prophet or angel–was referencing something that induced fear in the listener. In this times, we have become abundantly aware that a new way of being, of relating and loving takes courage–and a willingness to set aside the present order of things so that a new and better day can be born.

Signs of God’s Love
Scripture: Isaiah 7: 1-14, Matthew 1: 1-25, selected verses

Today, love is our focus for this Advent Sunday. We often speak of Advent as a journey toward Christmas, a time to wake up, to pay attention, and a willingness to prepare the way, as John the Baptist says. Over the four weeks, we light the candles that remind us of the importance of the beautiful and life affirming values of hope, love, joy and peace in Christ’s message and in our own spiritual journeys. Let us pray, O Holy One, we are journeying in this very dark and difficult time and we need your light and love to show us the way. Open our hearts just a little wider to a new path of openness and of love. Amen.

This week, with “love” as our Advent focus, the two passages bring talk of “signs” of God’s presence, and of God’s love, but they also remind us of God’s challenge to us to get love right. Some may be a bit skeptical about saying that something was “a sign from God” but signs were very important to ancient peoples. It may be helpful to think of them as symbols–concrete things which point beyond themselves to some greater concept. The “sign” that comes up in the complex Isaiah passage–which comes at a time of impending war and the fear that accompanies that threat(“they shook as the trees of a forest shake”)–is a child. Children were often important signs in the Hebrew Scripture and in Isaiah, we see the child as the hope and promise of a future generation. As he says, this future is Immanuel, “God with us.”

Last week, we read from the Gospel of Mark, which I mentioned is the shortest of the four and speaks about the years of Jesus’ public ministry. We can imagine that it was meant for a crowd that would get bored easily. Today, we turn to the Gospel of Matthew, which was written later and for a Hebrew Bible-literate crowd. Matthew is careful to connect Jesus strongly to his Jewish heritage and history. Matthew’s “origin story” of Christianity begins with a long genealogy which includes a list of the generations that came before the birth of Jesus, including the mention of the exile which dates to the time of Isaiah. Matthew endeavors to connect the struggles of the past to the time of Jesus with the intention to also connects this amazing story to future generations who will come after Jesus as well. And so, as we listen once again to Matthew’s words, we become a part of the story, part of the hope he had to share that story with future generations. The writers of the Gospels were attempting to share the pivotal stories of Jesus’ life and ministry to pass on to future generations as a source of inspiration and hope. This child Jesus, of whom he writes, is the product of an historical lineup of generations and will be the sign that God is with us into future trials as well. We hear of Joseph’s radical act of love in a situation that gave him every reason to walk away. The messenger seems to be saying, “don’t be afraid to do the hard thing here… there’s a big payoff for humanity in it.”

Native Americans often remind us that the decisions we make today must take into consideration the generations who will come long after our time here. These readings are a reminder that the manner in which we care for our future is to love it as one would love a child, to nurture this symbolic child so that it will live into a better world to come. We have to have the courage and the conviction to love differently, love fully and live out of a love that nurtures the future of all creation and does not destroy it. Love carries a great responsibility with it, whether we are raising up the next generation or caring for our earth for the generations to come. I imagine we are indeed grateful for the legacy that has been entrusted to us, whether in our own personal lives or our faith or in the gift of this beautiful planet earth.

Last week, I referenced a documentary that spoke about the power of music shared together in the lives of people at the time of the Holocaust. Together, these prisoners in a concentration camp gathered to be lifted up by the sharing of music, of Verdi’s Requiem, despite their tragic circumstances. We know there is a special connection which often takes place when people engage in a shared purpose of music and art.

The documentary, Girls on the Wall, is another powerful story of a group of young women incarcerated in Illinois. It is a sad reminder of the thousands of young lives who even today are in danger of getting lost in the penal system. The film which does include strong language in the sharing of the stories of these girls, including their anger, as they speak of their violent pasts, also reveals some of the causes that have led them to this point in time. In spite of all they have been through, the film reveals their deep longing for love in spite of all of their defenses. Some choose to share some of their own personal journeys which too often were absent of love or care from those they knew. It’s a world that few of us have encountered, but it is sadly the world with which too many young people from difficult backgrounds are familiar.

In the documentary, this group is offered the opportunity to write and stage a musical based on their own lives. In the process, they are invited to reflect upon the crimes they have committed and offered ways to reclaim their own humanity.

One reviewer said this about the film: “There is remarkable power in telling your story…. The girls talk about the hard crimes they’ve committed. They tell stories of abuse and addiction. But mostly, they heal. This is the most remarkable part of the film: You become a witness to inner change, and that change is initiated by the act of storytelling… The Director, Ross, becomes a catalyst for change, by simply holding listening space for the speakers.” The Huffington Post

When we consider Jesus’ own humble beginnings, we are aware that his message too may have been lost if those whom he had sought to reach had dismissed him too easily. Not only do we have the gift of the stories about him, we also hear stories about how he too was able to listen to others and hear their suffering, their pain, their struggles, and their hopes. He listened to those others would not listen to. He offered great empathy to them and mirrored back to them their value and their dignity.

We might reflect upon what we miss out on when we judge others too quickly, or dismiss others before we hear their stories too soon? It takes a deeper commitment and love, an openness to the voice of another, to really spend the time to listen without judgement. Perhaps you have found yourself surprised by new learning when you took the time to listen to another. We never really know who may be important messengers in our own time, those seeking to remind us that “God is indeed with us” in human form unless we are open and don’t judge too soon. At the heart of the Christmas story is the story of a family from a humble background, a story of a King who is born in the lowliest of mangers, a family who is forced to flee their homeland and become immigrants in another land to save their child. I don’t think that it is at coincidence that God chose to be revealed to us in such a way, that God would be with us through this family, one without power or means. And so even in this story is a great challenge to us. Let us pause and consider: Who have been messengers of love to us in our lives at a time when we may most have needed to hear a word of love? Where are the signs, even in these times, that love is flourishing and that our God is indeed with us? Emmanuel, our God is with us. Can we feel that holy presence?

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